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The Weight of Him by Ethel Rohan | book review

The Weight of Him by Ethel Rohan | book reviewThe Weight of Him by Ethel Rohan

About the book: (from the publisher) At four hundred pounds, Billy Brennan can always count on food. From his earliest memories, he has loved food’s colors, textures and tastes. The way flavors go off in his mouth. How food keeps his mind still and his bad feelings quiet. Food has always made everything better, until the day Billy’s beloved son Michael takes his own life.

Billy determines to make a difference in Michael’s memory and undertakes a public weight-loss campaign, to raise money for suicide prevention―his first step in an ambitious plan to save himself, and to save others. However, Billy’s dramatic crusade appalls his family, who want to simply try to go on, quietly, privately.
Despite his crushing detractors, Billy gains welcome allies: his community-at-large; a co-worker who lost his father to suicide; a filmmaker with his own dubious agenda; and a secret, miniature kingdom that Billy populates with the sub-quality dolls and soldiers he saves from disposal at the toy factory where he works. But it is only if Billy can confront the truth of the suffering and brokenness within and around him that he and others will be able to realize the recovery they need.
Told against the picturesque yet haunting backdrop of rural, contemporary Ireland, The Weight of Him is a big-hearted novel about loss and reliance that moves from tragedy to recrimination to what can be achieved when we take the stand of our lives.
About the author: Ethel Rohan’s debut novel, The Weight of Him, won the inaugural Plumeri Fellowship. She is the author of two story collections, Goodnight Nobody and Cut Through the Bone, the former longlisted for The Edge Hill Prize and the latter longlisted for The Story Prize. An award-winning short story writer, her work has appeared in The New York Times, World Literature Today, Tin House Online, GUERNICA Magazine, The Stinging Fly, and many others. Raised in Dublin, Ireland, she lives in San Francisco and received her MFA in fiction from Mills College, CA. She is a member of San Francisco Writers’ Grotto.

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Genre: Fiction/General/Contemporary

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My take: Rarely have I rooted for a character the way I did for Big Billy Brennan, a character whose broken heart is just about as great as his 400-pound body. I so wanted him to win. To do all that he sets out to achieve. To lose half himself in weight, to enjoy food without being addicted to it, to have sex again with his wife, to regain the respect of his family and himself, and most of all, to bring something good out of something awful. I ached for this man desperate for a do-over.

What I found especially brilliant was the way this novel bound together multiple layers and double meanings. Bittersweet from start to finish, it’s about a man finding himself as he seeks answers to the unanswerable. I did start to feel a bit depressed about the whole situation about three-quarters in as Billy’s best intentions go sideways on him. But fortunately for Billy and the readers, the story doesn’t end there but on a sweet note of hope that I was happy to take as a parting gift.

The Weight of Him speaks honestly into a couple of sensitive topics: obesity and suicide. One thing that it does especially well is to explore the complexity of people’s reactions to grief and suffering, as well as the very real dilemma of moving forward together — as a couple, a family, a community — when everyone has his own way of coping.

The longer I ponder The Weight of Him, the more I find to appreciate. Its protagonist may be a larger-than-life man, but his story reads very much like fine women’s fiction, deeply imbued with layered complexity, nuance, and truth.

Just so you know: Some profanity and sexual content

Thanks to St. Martin’s Press for providing me this book free of charge. All opinions are mine.

After words: What’s a favorite book of yours with a male POV?

 

2 responses to “The Weight of Him by Ethel Rohan | book review”

  1. I haven’t read any new books lately with a male POV but I’m returning to Jack London’s To Build A Fire right now because I read it perhaps in high school, but don’t remember the story. Jack London was one of my first literary heroes, and I’m feeling wistful this week.

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